sexual consent is the agreement between all people involved to engage in a sexual activity. Consent is:informedfreely givenongoingreversible clear enthusiasticactivecoherentsober "I like it when you touch (place). Are you okay with that?" "Do you want me to slow down or speed up?" "I like it when you touch (place). Are you okay with that?" "Do you want me to slow down or speed up?" "I like it when you touch (place). Are you okay with that?" "Do you want me to slow down or speed up?" "Can I (explain an action)?" "Can you tell me what turns you on?" "Can I (explain an action)?" "Can you tell me what turns you on?" "Can I (explain an action)?" "Can you tell me what turns you on?" "It's okay if you're not into this, do you want to take a break?" "Do you want to (describe action)?" "It's okay if you're not into this, do you want to take a break?" "Do you want to (describe action)?" "It's okay if you're not into this, do you want to take a break?" "Do you want to (describe action)?" Not only is consent sexy, it’s non-negotiable.